Like echoes are our lives; what they hear they reflect back to the speaker’s ear and heart. So it is that we may find out, in the way others treat us, just how we really treat them. They echo into our ears in their judgments of us the very things which our lips have spoken concerning them. Hence our judgments of others are really self revealings. If we are suspicious and distrustful of men, we are showing the world that in us are causes fro suspicion and distrust. If we find selfishness wherever we go, it is an evidence that we are selfish ourselves.